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wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims
no, seriously. victims of emotional abuse have it hard because they do not have the physical marks or the records to “prove” to someone they were hurt and are hurting. most people will not take emotional abuse as seriously as physical abuse, saying “you should get over it” or “sticks and stones”. thats fucking bullshit.
emotional abuse victims who have been forced to do or say or be things you never wanted to, i love you.
emotional abuse victims who have been gaslighted and manipulated to the point where you no longer know what is real, i care for you.
emotional abuse victims who are told they will never be loved by anyone else and they are not a good person, you are amazing.
emotional abuse victims who feel manipulative and often catch themselves mirroring actions of their abusers and feel sick to their stomachs because theyre “turning into them”, you are not them and never will be. you are so much better than that.
emotional abuse victims who have to live every day suffering because nobody understands how messed up you are from what they said or did or made you do, you arent alone.
anyone who reads this, i care for you. please support all victims of abuse every single day because they deserve it just like they deserve the love and care those in the past have failed to provide them
Anyway if someone comes to you and tells you that they’re being abused, don’t  “talk to their abuser” without their consent. Like… that seems obvious but I’ve seen it happen and had it happen to me personally and it’s terrifying and it puts the victim’s life and safety and health in danger.
Chances are if an abuser finds out that their victim is talking about them behind their back, especially if they’re outing their abusive behavior, the victim will face consequences. They’ll be punished because their abuser will be pissed off that their name is being tarnished and they don’t have *as much control* over their victim as they thought. Unless you’re 100% fully capable of providing a guaranteed safe place for the victim to escape/hide from their abuser, you better not be confronting the abuser without the victim’s explicit permission because all you’re doing is putting them in more danger.
If y’all don’t think having Election Day on a random ass Tuesday that isn’t even considered special by anyone’s job or school so you have to take your own time off to vote isn’t a way they disenfranchise certain groups of people, you crazy.
It especially disenfranchises the poor, people who can’t afford to just take off work, and the youth, people who can’t afford to miss school or work. It’s a plus that they’re making it harder to vote absentee now.
If you need your absentee ballot, order it now.
the whole idea of “stay in school!!!!” is great and all but hard to hear when you’re someone who couldn’t stay in school
so here’s a post for every person who’s had to drop out of school. whether it was do to illness or money or just because you didn’t want to be there, you’re no less of a person for dropping out. you own your own life, and you’re just as important as people who were able to graduateÂ
The older i get the more i realize
- Friendship is not something that is common. Genuine Friendship is rareÂ
- Your mother should be appreciatedÂ
- Everybody wants something and never ask themselves what they bring to the table
- The energy you give the world is the energy you receive
- Time alone is not a bad thing
- Love is a gift and is not something you can demand or force
- Being comfortable should be your main priorityÂ
Number two doesn’t work for all people. Might work for you. Doesn’t for me. You should appreciate THE PEOPLE WHO GAVE YOU LOVE, not just life.
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andysmcnally: “It should have felt ridiculous… I will tell you, it felt great. I was proud and grateful to once again be involved.” – Harrison Ford