joyeuse-noelle:

alcomol:

adeadgirlandherfriends:

speechdisorder:

tumblr: we want more characters with mental illnesses!!

kylo ren: lashes out frequently, cannot control his emotions, has anger issues, feels like he’s being torn apart, is suffering because of his overwhelming thoughts, uses his pain to keep him going, and shows symptoms of a variety of mental illnesses

tumblr: no not that one

idk how being a fascist and a violent misogynist is really linked to mental illness

rey: has obvious abandonment issues, treats everyone automatically with hostility, doesn’t trust anyone at face value

finn: went through years of abuse, is constantly terrified of everything, compulsively lies, gets incredibly emotional, has what is akin to an anxiety attack within the first ten minutes of the movie

op: okay but what about A Fascist 

Do you think these two commenters realize that they’re proving OP’s point?

Tumblr (as a trend, not individual posters) really likes mental illness and disability, but only as long as it’s friendly mental illness and disability. Tumblr likes depression and anxiety. Tumblr likes people who are victims of abuse. Tumblr likes wheelchairs. All of this is comfortable for Tumblr.

Tumblr really, really hates being taken out of its comfort zone.

Tumblr hates that difficulty managing anger is a mental illness. That schizophrenia, psychosis, and addiction are mental illnesses. Tumblr hates that sometimes disability is invisible, or is cumulative, or has good days and bad days.

Tumblr wants people with mental illnesses and disabilities to be Virtuous Saints Suffering Under The Vagaries Of This Wretched Earth. Tumblr can’t stand being asked to treat people with mental illnesses and disabilities as, you know, people. (I know this is awkward when we’re talking about fictional characters – but Tumblr does this to real people too.) If someone is a Virtuous Saint etc. then their mental illness or disability is Acceptable. And if not? Well, they don’t really have a mental illness or a disability, they’re a Vile Sinner Who Should Be Shunned.

It’s terrible. It’s not awareness or empathy, it’s inspiration porn.

That Kylo Ren is a fascist – or at least has aligned himself with them – doesn’t mean he doesn’t have a mental illness. (I don’t see the “misogynist” angle, but I only saw the film once.) In fact, it’s easy to argue that his decision to align with the First Order is a result of his attempts to deal with his mental illness. He’s not a Vile Sinner any more than Rey and Finn are Virtuous Saints. They are, all three of them, complicated characters.

Bonus: That Rey and Finn weren’t mentioned in the original post doesn’t mean they’re not also important. But this post wasn’t about them!

vcigar:

vcigar:

wheres all the support for the emotional abuse victims

no, seriously. victims of emotional abuse have it hard because they do not have the physical marks or the records to “prove” to someone they were hurt and are hurting. most people will not take emotional abuse as seriously as physical abuse, saying “you should get over it” or “sticks and stones”. thats fucking bullshit.

emotional abuse victims who have been forced to do or say or be things you never wanted to, i love you.

emotional abuse victims who have been gaslighted and manipulated to the point where you no longer know what is real, i care for you.

emotional abuse victims who are told they will never be loved by anyone else and they are not a good person, you are amazing.

emotional abuse victims who feel manipulative and often catch themselves mirroring actions of their abusers and feel sick to their stomachs because theyre “turning into them”, you are not them and never will be. you are so much better than that.

emotional abuse victims who have to live every day suffering because nobody understands how messed up you are from what they said or did or made you do, you arent alone.

anyone who reads this, i care for you. please support all victims of abuse every single day because they deserve it just like they deserve the love and care those in the past have failed to provide them